...the number one reason why people don't change is pride, closely followed by hating the consequences of sin but actually still loving the sin itself.
If you're frustrated at your inability to change, then your first step is to give up - to give up on yourself. Repent of your self-reliance and self-confidence. Your second step is to rejoice in God's grace - his grace to forgive and his grace to transform.
- Ask God to reveal to you how He views your sin
- Worship God
- Cling to the Cross of Christ