“Wow. This is a big shift from Midtown!”
I’ve heard this line from several friends over the past couple of months. And yes, I was surprised as anyone when I felt my heart being drawn to a different type of home and a different type of life.
Mandy and I have been urban dwellers for our entire marriage. A year in Nashville, five and a half in the SF Bay Area, and now 20 in Memphis.
We love Midtown, and we absolutely loved our home and neighbors in Annesdale-Snowden. For the past couple of years we have discussed off and on what we wanted to do after Micah went off to college. We had looked at other cities, but for several reasons felt like we should stay in the Memphis area.
So then we started looking at other parts of Memphis. Nothing ever felt right though.
Then, on August 16, I decided to listen to my own advice. I had told several real estate clients over the previous few months that now was a great time to buy a home. So that afternoon I decided to see what was out there.
I set up a few search parameters. It was a pretty wide search, so there were about 100 properties that fit the criteria. Most were discarded quickly, but a few I pushed to the side to come back to.
And then I came upon a house on Benjestown Rd. It was in Shelby Forest, an area that we have always loved spending time in. It was a little smaller than our current house, which we liked. It was on one level, which we also liked. It had 2 acres, way more than what we currently had but still manageable. And it was 84 years younger than our current home.
As much as I love older homes, it’s been really nice to be in a newer home. It lacks some of the charm, but it makes up for it in insulation and proper wiring!
The home was 25 years old, but just about everything had been updated over the past few years.
I showed it to Mandy, not knowing what she would think. She was intrigued, so I made an appointment and we went to look at it. We both loved everything about it, but we wondered if perhaps this was too fast.
We went back to see it two days later, and then took Micah to see it that evening. By this point we were imagining ourselves there, but we wanted buy in from Micah. Again, we had assumed that we would make a move after he had moved out. A possible move was not something that we had even brought up to him, so we knew it would be a surprise.
Between the three of us and also Adam, Micah was the most torn. It would involve a bit more driving to school and to see friends. And it was a big change. But he also thought we should pursue it.
We made an offer the next day, and had it under contract the next. We moved in the middle of October, which means that we’ve been here for three months.
There is a quietness here that I love but that honestly took me a bit of time to get used to. But it’s good. I love the beauty. I love looking up into the sky at night and seeing the brightness of the stars. I love that we are just three miles from the south entrance to Meeman-Shelby Forest State Park. I’ve already taken many bike rides to and through the park.
When I take bike rides through beautiful places something good happens to my soul. And now to live this close is a good thing!
One day not long ago I was riding in the park and rode by a disc golf course. It turns out that the park has three courses. When I got back home I told Mandy that I had figured out what we were doing in retirement. We were going to become disc golf people! I imagined us riding our bikes there, playing a round, and then going to the Shelby Forest General Store for lunch. That’s a good day.
Mandy and I both have such gratitude. We know that this was God granting a desire of our heart that we didn’t even know we had. I love when that happens!